A thought for the day from my carer.
Our selfish destructive personal interrelationships, where couples don’t last for more than a year before their immaturity and self-centredness fracture ill forged bonds, is dooming Europeans to a similar fate as the Neanderthals.
‘Me,’ ‘Me,’ ‘Me,’ ends up in acrimony, mutual accusations, and alimony, leaving any children invariably without a
father paradigm. The blame lies squarely with the current
PARENTING STYLES—which is customarily
PERMISSIVE.
Permissive Style of Parenting: This is a style where there are few rules laid down, and any rules set are usually not consistently enforced. The parents don't want to be tied down to routines. They want their children to feel free. They do not set clear boundaries or expectations for their children's behaviour and are over indulgent, so the children have no idea of
self-discipline or how to behave in society. To add to the problem, society has become equally permissive, producing the current result.
Thus, we have a 16-year-old kid partying in a pub at
2 am in the morning ending up in a knife fight. What was a
16-year-old doing in a
PUB? Why was he out at
2 am?
Where were the parents? What the hell were thinking, letting this 16-year-old out that late at night?They were being
PERMISSIVE, and they paid the high price for their permissivness.
Everything now tends to be instant gratification and junk food—the
‘I want it now’ lunacy. Education is stacked with
permissive teachers, the junk Government buckles to all sorts of
minority campaigns. Society as a whole has come out of this 60’s, 70’s, 80’s, and 90’s lefty permissiveness completely unable to cope with relationships or bring up children.
Dysfunctional parents produce dysfunctional children who then produce
NO children and the population tumbles. This is the future for Europe with the current trend.
If
Government was
less self-centred and actually guided society, and
NOT towards some socialist dogma crap, but actually took a
lead in promoting an
Authoritative Parenting Style, where children learn to be
responsible for themselves and to think about the
consequences of their behaviour, where boundaries are imposed and positively supervised, there could be some hope. With the Teaching profession,
we need to start again. Unfortunately, MP’s are to busy
fiddling their expenses to do what they were elected to do—that is
GOVERN those who elected them to do just that.
How Governments nurture their societies, how parents nurture their progeny, reflects on the countries health. The future of a country is its children—more to the point—the children are your
life-after-death, not some religious paradise fantasy. Children are the sole reason for any human’s life, not some religious drivel. Every animal knows this instinctively—yet we humans often
rationalise ourselves out of this
fundamental knowledge. To the blind,
CAREERS are more important than children. Come on folks—wake up!
